“Dating in Los Angeles is harder than other cities I’ve lived in. Do you feel like its Los Angeles? Do you only date Muslim men?” “It was an article in which you talk about how difficult it is to date,” he continued. He is one of few white folks in my circle of friends. We were chatting during happy hour at the annual conference where we meet and catch up. “I have some questions about things you’ve written about,” John asked last week. Authors’s Note: The article was a part of my monthly Radical Love column at – the column was where I wrote about redefining a love in a radical way at the intersection of being Muslim, woman, and brown.